National Son Day for the year 2020 in the USA is going to be celebrated on 28 September. This is a day that reminds us that we have a family and they have real rights to be fulfilled. I think this is the best occasion for families to get together and have some fun. These moments will be unforgettable and will be remembered whenever such occasions arise.
When is Sons Day actually?
There are 3 different dates that are assigned to celebrate this day. Like in the United States people celebrate Sons Day on 28, As the National daughter’s day is just a day before which on 27 September. So the 28th of September is the date in the USA and some other countries also. Other than that September 29 and August 11 are also the two dates one which Sons day is celebrated in a different part of the world like in the UK, Australia, India, Newzealand etc.
Let’s see some of the parents’ quotes that they made for their Son/Daughters.
- “To wake up to the sound of my son saying Mama, mama! It’s the best sound ever”. Miranda Kerr.
- “Today I am the best person in the world, my son was born and thanks to God for this gift”. Lionel Messi
- “Do I want to be a hero to my son? No, I would like to be a very real human being. That’s hard enough.” Robert Downey, Jr.
- It shows that loving parents are. Their love is unconditional and pure.
A Brief History of The National Son Day in the United States
According to an article that was published on August 20, 1944, in St. Joseph News-Press/Gazette, J Henry Dusenberry was the first who put forward this idea way back in 1936, almost 84 years ago. He said that there must be a day for sons and daughters. And now the USA has been celebrating it since 22nd April 1993 regularly. But some of the records also show that it was celebrated in 1988 on August 11.
It was first celebrated on April 22, 1993. This was the first occasion when children have their recognition for the first time on a national level. Since then the event has been celebrated regularly and now has become one of the favorite events in the United States of America.
Why We Celebrate The Sons Day
Life is so fast that no one has time for others, in fact, no one has time for himself. This is such a miserable state where one starts thinking like a machine that has only to perform the tasks which have been already programmed in it. The aim of our lives is just to earn money to facilitate our family and the race of making more have forgotten us our families. Our more earning to provide them with a comfortable life has already done too much to them. We do not have time for our spouse and children. For God’s sake, it is real life. Do not make it like a machine, spend some time with your family.
Take them somewhere you only have the company of them and there is no one else.
Have the parents of Sons ever bother to think that why there is an immense generation gap between the generation of the last century and this century? And why would you think like that as it is a general role in The United States that everyone has its own life and he is free to live his life the way he wants. This type of approach just taken away burdens from us for the time being but once our children step in to their practical life they respond in the same as we did to them in some stage of their lives.
Remember your children, especially sons are your responsibility to take care of them and give them everything they need but the most important thing is the Ethic that you transfer to your sons and daughters. Remember, if you make excuses in this regard, then ready for the same music in the future. But there will be a bit different this time. And can you guess what will be the difference, yes you are right, your children will leave when you need them the most?
Your son and your daughter are your responsibility and if you do not take this responsibility willingly then you are heading in the wrong direction. All the efforts that you are making now will not be able to bring fruit in the future. So, if you want your children to be a successful part of society in the future then you will have to figure out their capabilities and weak points right from the beginning. And the National Sons Day 2020 USA will be the best opportunity to grab. On this holiday parents can do tons of activities to get close to their children and to figure out their strengths and weaknesses. On this Day parents can do simple things for their or can hit them with big surprises.
Preparing a son for the future can be a dangerous thing or this can be an opportunity to grow as a human being. So, this is the occasion where parents talk to their children and ask them about their choices and other ways of life.
How To Celebrate The Sons Day in 2020
Well, there are different ideas and thoughts on how to celebrate Sons day that is going to fall on 28/29 September. Everyone has got his own idea of celebrating the day with their children. There are many ways to celebrate this beautiful day with your beautiful ones. But here in this article, we are going to suggest some common ideas along with some expensive ideas to make your day special enough that can be remembered for the rest of your life.
What to do on National Son Day?
I do not have the plan to celebrate the day in a fancy way then here we are with some casual solutions.
“My love for you is like an invisible elastic band. No matter how far you go, we are connected” Unknown
Cook Something Special For Your Sons and Daughters:
This will be a good idea if you have already planned the day to be celebrated at home. You can ask your children what they would like to eat. After getting their idea just go to the kitchen and cook them the food they want. But do not forget to get their company in the kitchen. You can easily ask them to join in the kitchen and help out you in cooking their favorite dish. This is the place you can ask them about their future planning and suggest what you have already plan for them in the future. But keep in mind that all this process must be done in a lighter mode.
Play Football or Some Indoor Games:
On this special occasion, you can arrange some sort of games. You can play any game that you and your children like to play together. It may be football because it is outdoor that provides a lot of fun. There are several other outdoor games that can be played to spend time with your children on this special occasion. If you want to have some time with your loved ones but do not want to go out then you can go for indoor activities like Chess or any other indoor game, even Lodo is a good choice.
Through these activities, you can teach them the rules of life like how to behave in a difficult situation. And, how to control your emotions, when you are on the top.
Play With Your Pet Together:
“If I had my child to raise all over again, I’d build self-esteem first, and the house later. I’d finger-paint more, and point the finger less. I would do less correcting and more connecting. I’d take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes. I’d take more hikes and fly more kites. I’d stop playing seriously and seriously play. I would run through more fields and gaze at more stars. I’d do more hugging and less tugging.“ – Diane Loomans
These are the golden words that show the love and affection of parents. Parents and children can enjoy them by playing with your pet for a while. This will not only relax you and your family but this will provide you an opportunity to teach your children the rights of animals and how to look after them.
If you have already planned to spend some money on this mega occasion then you can take the following steps to make this day a memorable occasion for yourself and your family.
Start preparation a day before the event day. Pack your luggage and vehicle that you are going to use. Then tell your children that we are camping on the nearby hills or beach, whatever is suitable for you. After reaching the destination start working on the project and make sure to engage your sons and daughters in it. It will prepare them for both how to work outside of the comfort zone and how to work in a team. You have a full day and you can do tons of fun experiments that will not allow you and your family to rejoice themselves but also provide you a chance to train your children for a bright future. Parents need to divide tasks according to the capability of their children. This method will realize your children that what are capable of and what is not suitable for their gender. This will eliminate competition among your children.
Get some Gifts for Son and daughters:
Always wish your children with gifts on the event that is specially designed for them. They expect their parents to have something for them on these special occasions. Whether the gifts you arrange for your children are expensive or cheap will certainly boost their morale.
Take Your Children (Son) To The Workplace:
After having some fun with your children please get them to the workplace. It might be your office or some other workstation to realize them what are they going to face in the coming future. Tell them how people earn to meet their livelihood. This will make them responsible and the opportunity will give them a chance to think about their future from a different perspective.
What Is The Importance Of The National Sons Day For Parents Living In the USA?
There is a huge significance of this Day for the father and children living in the USA.
On this day parents come closer to their children. Parents come across the problems that are facing by their children due to their busy lifestyles. They express ideas with each other and thus the bridge between them becomes so narrow that it becomes easier to understand the needs, rights, and responsibilities of each other. How celebrating this Day will help the parents that are going to fall on the 28th of September, every year.
Sorting Out Issues:
The coming Sons Day in the USA will provide parents and children a chance to come to close each other and share their issues, sorrows and also spread happiness. This allows the parents to sort out the issue and sorrows of the sons and daughters very quickly and deeply. Thus the solution to different problems becomes easier and understanding and trustworthiness increase.
The day will help in creating a friendly and healthy environment among boys and their fathers. In normal cases such an environment become abnormal and the gap between the father and his son is enough that no one wants to share his ideas with each other. Such an occasion will encourage both the parties, especially the boys to open up in front of their parents and tell what they need for a better future.
Now looking the National Day from the sons’ perspective. Let’s see how this eventful day will help out the growing future of boys and girls to become a healthy part of society.
Love And Affection:
The Son Day on 28th September is very lethal to create a sense of love and affection for their parents. Such days reminds them that they have someone who is taking care of them. There is someone who loves them from the core of his heart. These thoughts are very good for the future of parents and children. It not only secures the future of the children but when their parents become old, the children will take care of them as they did when their children were in the state of need.
Sense of Protection:
The company of parents is always protecting their children. Whatever the problem will be they will feel secure to discuss it with their parent, and sons always look for their parents to protect them from the harmful effects of the society.
Polish Their Abilities and Grow:
How our children polish their skills and abilities, in fact, JOYCE MAYNARD has drawn a true picture of it. According to him;
“It’s not only children who grow. Parents do too. As much as we watch to see what our children do with their lives, they are watching us to see what we do with ours. I can’t tell me, children, to reach for the sun. All I can do is reach for it, myself.” – Joyce Maynard
A strong and friendly relationship between parents and children always them to shine their skills and thus they can prepare in a better way for the future. So the 28th of September is not an event for them but this is a day that will build their career and will help them in becoming a perfect human being in life.
28th September is not a day that is celebrated and then forgotten forever. In fact, this is the day in the history of the USA that brings families together, to connect the heart of the family members. It strengthens the relation between parents and children. It reminds both, parents and children their responsibilities, rights for each other and for the society. This Day reminds that they have children to look after them and reminds the children that have loving and caring parents from whom they mean everything. Sons Day that falls on 28 September every year and National Sons and Daughters Days that fall on 11th August every year is a building block between generations, let these days flourish to make a healthy society.